fairy tales

We all have fairy tales, that we make up in are head, that dream man that you will have a "perfect" wedding, with a dress that will fit the part, that we have planed over and over again.

How it looks, who is thier, what you will wear and what dress you will have, that "perfect" wedding is all planed out, that "perfec" man standing there smiling at you nearly crying and it end with that "perfect" kiss that their is no dry eye in the room. 

As the day goes on you you part and have everyone coming up to you asking how you are? 

That best man speech that you couldn't help but laugh, then your dad watching and remembering the day he took you home for the first time and made a vow to protect you with his life, he comes up too you and wispers " you will always be my little girl." At "The perfect wedding"... 

 But this is all a dream, can it come true? are fairy tales true? or Are we all just living in the clouds? 

 The definition of perfect is having all the required or desirable elements, qualities or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. 

Do we all want perfect? But some people say "No one is perfect, everyone comes with problems." can that dream of the perfect person and the dream wedding turn in to a nightmear? 

 We look for profection but we don't alwaus get it however, can we still reach some dreams like a dream jobs we all think of if we try are very hardest, something that is perfect to you is not perfect to someone else that doesn't make them wrong, everyone is titled to a opinnion.

 can that "dream" start running you life instead of you? Because you have set your standered way too high and the things you expect will happen or may not happen the way you want it too.

 However, we all need fairy tales so we all know what we want in life this doesn't make you a bad person for having dreams and aspersions it makes you human. Just make sure you don't have your head in the clouds for too long, just remember the reality that is life. It doesn't always happen like you see in films or see in books or on tv. 

But it does happen just a diffrent way to how you want it too but it does happen maybe you may hit some obsticals but you can over come it, you just need to believe your self. 

 xxxx

true friends ;

How do you know you have a true friend? How do you know you can trust the right person? 

 Well, all make mastakes when it comes to friends. If it's saying the wrong things to regreat being friends with them for weird reason like having massive arguments to spreading rumours. We all have them friends,but we don't notic it till the damage is done, before you or them have made a stupid mastake that you will later regreat and all hell brackes loss.

 However, we sometimes never learn from are mastakes that we should first time round an d we should learn them quit fast but you just don't. 

Some people make the same mastake thousands of times till they finally learn, some make it once or twice and necer make the same mastake. 

 The time you need your friends through tuff times and only one or two are actually their for you, You soon learn who your true friends are. Thats the time in your life you make a massive decison that will make a impact on your everyday life. 

Do you actually want to stay friend with the who wasn't their when you needed them? Or Do you stay friends with them and act if you don't care? 

I always try and see the good in people but i have finally realised who my true friends are and who are not and you i decided to confront the people who i thought would be their and wasn't and i felt much better after woulds. 

 You always meet the people who only use you for things if it for food or to make someone jealous or to try and look good. And you always go along with it even though you know they are using you, until one day you just give up and you hold all that anger and rage in and one day you just exploed with anger and after woulds you regreat not just telling them. 

It's not fair on you to be used like that and just be threated like that at the end of the day we are all humans and no one deserves being used and they wouldnt like it to happen to them so why are they doing it? 

 I always put mysel in the other persons shoes and see there point of view so then i know how they are feeling and how they would see it. i think it's the best thing to do rarther than get all worked up and get angry over nothing. friendship is full of the unknown will what if's? and why's? 

That can scare a few people because it's unknown but we all need mistary in are life to make it feel right and mistary is never bad sometimes its good aswell. You will find out who your true friends are the hard way are the easy but losing friends or not being as close as you were is always hard just remember who you are and that no one desirves to be miss treated in any way shap or form. 

when you do find that great freind that you know will not be creeped out by how weird or crazy you are they will just laugh and probably end up joining in being crazy, and when you do find that true friend don't lose contact because you may end up regreating it. 

Life is full of regreat but the best thing to do is not live in the past or future live in the present the now and if you do regreat make sure you know who you can tell. i thank all my true friends and my family for making me the woman i am today, and they all have a massive pice of my heart.

 xxxx

is it really goodbye?

Late 2012 i saddly lost my nan, a women i thought was like super women, who lived  through everything. I guess "it was her time to go" as everyone told me.

Also, late 2013 i lost beloved grandad, who was like a best friend. And everyone said the same " it was his time to go." All the nurses did what they could to help him with the cancer but because he lost my nan (the love of his life.) 

He just gave up. Is love really that strong that you couldn't live with out the otherso you lose the will to live? Or was it just their time to go? 

 The question i ask myself a lot is, Do we all have a time to go? 

 All the question everyone at sometime in there life ask about death will never be answer thankfully because how do you know the true  believe that their is a after life? Does that make you less scared to die? 

I know it makes me less scared,i believe in a after life where you loved once whi have pased on are always with you but you can't see them or not alway hear them they are always their to protect you and gide you when you need it. I guess i use this to comfort me, i haven't losed them because " hero's never die" as a great women told me. 

I will never forget that and i hope you reading this that it will help you in now or even inthe future with griving  a loved one as my nan say " it's the cycle of life we all must get on with it." We get to choose the life we want to live, it doesn't choose us.

 Xxxx

hello

Hiya, im megan a normal girl with a crazy life. i made a blog so i could help people if they are having the same problems as me, the stress of life is crazy.

But when your a child you don't get told the hard things in life just the easy things. You think life will be easy go to school have a great job meet a man that one day you will have the "perfect" wedding and then later have kids and live a happy easy life. But thats not true you faced with a diffrent challenge everyday. 

However, the question i ask myself everyday is "will it get easyer over time?" I don't think it will any time soon. 

But all we can do is try and if we do face a obstacle to hard is ask for help even if you don't want it you need it, ask very close friends/family who you know you can trust and can help. 

I will try and do an blog everyday if not once or twice a week thank you,i just want to help all of you as much as i can because we all need each other at one point in life. 

Xxxx