Well, all make mastakes when it comes to friends. If it's saying the wrong things to regreat being friends with them for weird reason like having massive arguments to spreading rumours.
We all have them friends,but we don't notic it till the damage is done, before you or them have made a stupid mastake that you will later regreat and all hell brackes loss.
However, we sometimes never learn from are mastakes that we should first time round an d we should learn them quit fast but you just don't.
Some people make the same mastake thousands of times till they finally learn, some make it once or twice and necer make the same mastake.
The time you need your friends through tuff times and only one or two are actually their for you, You soon learn who your true friends are.
Thats the time in your life you make a massive decison that will make a impact on your everyday life.
Do you actually want to stay friend with the who wasn't their when you needed them? Or Do you stay friends with them and act if you don't care?
I always try and see the good in people but i have finally realised who my true friends are and who are not and you i decided to confront the people who i thought would be their and wasn't and i felt much better after woulds.
You always meet the people who only use you for things if it for food or to make someone jealous or to try and look good. And you always go along with it even though you know they are using you, until one day you just give up and you hold all that anger and rage in and one day you just exploed with anger and after woulds you regreat not just telling them.
It's not fair on you to be used like that and just be threated like that at the end of the day we are all humans and no one deserves being used and they wouldnt like it to happen to them so why are they doing it?
I always put mysel in the other persons shoes and see there point of view so then i know how they are feeling and how they would see it. i think it's the best thing to do rarther than get all worked up and get angry over nothing.
friendship is full of the unknown will what if's? and why's?
That can scare a few people because it's unknown but we all need mistary in are life to make it feel right and mistary is never bad sometimes its good aswell.
You will find out who your true friends are the hard way are the easy but losing friends or not being as close as you were is always hard just remember who you are and that no one desirves to be miss treated in any way shap or form.
when you do find that great freind that you know will not be creeped out by how weird or crazy you are they will just laugh and probably end up joining in being crazy, and when you do find that true friend don't lose contact because you may end up regreating it.
Life is full of regreat but the best thing to do is not live in the past or future live in the present the now and if you do regreat make sure you know who you can tell.
i thank all my true friends and my family for making me the woman i am today, and they all have a massive pice of my heart.
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