Thursday 9 January 2014

fairy tales

We all have fairy tales, that we make up in are head, that dream man that you will have a "perfect" wedding, with a dress that will fit the part, that we have planed over and over again.
How it looks, who is thier, what you will wear and what dress you will have, that "perfect" wedding is all planed out, that "perfec" man standing there smiling at you nearly crying and it end with that "perfect" kiss that their is no dry eye in the room. 

As the day goes on you you part and have everyone coming up to you asking how you are? 
That best man speech that you couldn't help but laugh, then your dad watching and remembering the day he took you home for the first time and made a vow to protect you with his life, he comes up too you and wispers " you will always be my little girl." At "The perfect wedding"... 
 But this is all a dream, can it come true? are fairy tales true? or Are we all just living in the clouds? 

 The definition of perfect is having all the required or desirable elements, qualities or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be. 

Do we all want perfect? But some people say "No one is perfect, everyone comes with problems." can that dream of the perfect person and the dream wedding turn in to a nightmear? 
 We look for profection but we don't alwaus get it however, can we still reach some dreams like a dream jobs we all think of if we try are very hardest, something that is perfect to you is not perfect to someone else that doesn't make them wrong, everyone is titled to a opinnion.

 can that "dream" start running you life instead of you? Because you have set your standered way too high and the things you expect will happen or may not happen the way you want it too.

 However, we all need fairy tales so we all know what we want in life this doesn't make you a bad person for having dreams and aspersions it makes you human. Just make sure you don't have your head in the clouds for too long, just remember the reality that is life. It doesn't always happen like you see in films or see in books or on tv. 
But it does happen just a diffrent way to how you want it too but it does happen maybe you may hit some obsticals but you can over come it, you just need to believe your self. 
 xxxx

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